5 “Cov Teeb Meem Sib Xws” Uas Yog Qhov Tseeb Tseeb

Muaj ntau txoj kev tham txog "cov cim sib xyaw" los ntawm cov nkauj thaum lawv tab tom sib tham. Kuv tau tham txog qhov no nrog phooj ywg thiab kuv tau tham txog qhov no nrog cov neeg siv khoom. Ntau tus neeg nyob ib leeg siv lawv tus kheej nrog kev sim nkag siab thiab txiav txim siab cov lus tsis sib haum thiab kev ua (lossis tsis ua haujlwm) ntawm tus khub yav tom ntej. Kuv tau ua txhaum ntawm kuv tus kheej yav dhau los - thiab nws tau siv tas li thiab tsis siv sijhawm thiab lub zog.

Tab sis ntawm no yog qhov koj yuav tsum ib txwm nco ntsoov: Nws yuav tsum tsis yog yog li nyuaj Koj yuav tsum tsis tas yuav kwv yees lossis txhawj xeeb txog qhov uas lwm tus neeg xav lossis lawv xav li cas. Yog, ib feem ntawm kev yos thiab nrhiav kev sib raug zoo tshiab yuav tsum xis nyob nrog qhov tsis paub thiab tsis paub tseeb, tab sis qee lub sijhawm, koj yuav tsum nug koj tus kheej, "Puas yog tus neeg no mob siab rau lossis ua ib nrab-a **?" Thiab yog tias tsis muaj kev siv zog lossis pom qhov tsis sib xws, yuav muaj feem, tus neeg no tsis tau nqis peev tiag lossis tsawg kawg tsis npaj los nqis peev hauv kev sib raug zoo nrog koj.

Nws yuav hnov ​​hnyav, tab sis koj tsim nyog tau koom nrog uas tau cog lus thiab yuav ua raws. Koj tsim nyog muaj ib tus neeg ua lub sijhawm rau koj (vim tias muaj ib txwm sijhawm). Koj tsim nyog ib tus neeg uas yuav sim. Koj tsim nyog tau txais ib tus neeg uas yuav qhia meej hauv lawv txoj kev xav rau koj. Koj tsim nyog tau txais ib tus neeg uas xav koom nrog koj lossis nrhiav kev sib raug zoo nrog koj.

Nov yog tsib qhov sib txawv "cov cim sib xyaw" uas yuav tsum qhia koj kom taug kev mus.

1. Tsawg heev (tab sis qee qhov) kev rau siab: Lawv koom nrog koj tab sis tsis tas li. Lawv ncav tes rau qee lub sijhawm, tab sis lawv zoo li tsis xav siv sijhawm nrog koj (lossis tsawg kawg tsis yog li feem ntau). Lawv tsis nug txog koj - koj ua li cas, koj hnub nyob li cas, koj nyiam dab tsi. Thiab yog tias lawv nug txog koj, lawv tsis zoo li tsis quav ntsej. Koj zoo li koj tab tom ua haujlwm feem ntau.
2. Tsis ua raws li hauv qab no: Lawv hais tias lawv yuav hu rov qab lossis ncav tes "tom qab" thiab tom qab ntawd tsis txhob. Lossis yog tias lawv ncav tes rau tom qab, nws yog hnub/lis piam/hli tom qab. Lawv nquag ua cov phiaj xwm tab sis tom qab ntawv thim lossis tawg. Lawv hais tias lawv txaus siab lossis "nyiam" koj (thiab nws yuav xav li ntawd) tab sis tsis txhob siv sijhawm los paub koj lossis txhawm rau txhim kho kev sib raug zoo ntxiv.
3. Kub thiab txias: Qee hnub lawv zoo li "nkag mus rau nws" thiab lwm hnub tsis ntau li. Koj muaj hnub lom zem thiab sib tham thiab tom qab ntawd muaj lub sijhawm sib tham me me thiab tsuas yog sib tham luv luv. Koj yuav hnov ​​zoo li muaj "tshuaj zoo tiag tiag" qee hnub thiab tom qab ntawd tsawg dua ntawm lwm tus.
4. Tsis paub tseeb ntawm yam lawv tab tom nrhiav ":" Lawv yuav hais tias lawv txaus siab thiab tshwm (lossis ua) txaus siab tab sis tsis kam tham txog yav tom ntej lossis cog lus rau ib yam dab tsi (phiaj xwm, tshwj xeeb). Lawv muab kev zam txim vim li cas lawv thiaj tsis tuaj yeem cog lus lossis yuav xav tau dab tsi tshwm sim hauv lawv lub neej txhawm rau kom lawv cog lus lossis "npaj tau."
5. Tham lus tham: Lawv feem ntau yog neeg tham lus. Lawv tuaj yeem da dej koj nrog cov lus ntawm kev lees paub thiab siv tau. Lawv sib tham nrog koj tas li, tab sis koj pom lawv tsawg heev. Lawv tham txog dab tsi "tuaj yeem yog" nruab nrab ntawm ob ntawm koj thiab ntau npaum li cas lawv saib xyuas lossis xav mus ntsib koj, tab sis nws tsis sib xws nrog lawv cov kev ua. Ib zaug ntxiv, tsis muaj kev taug qab.

Yog li, cov cim sib xyaw no, yog qhov tseeb "cov cim" - xim daj lossis chij liab, txawm tias. Thiab thaum nws feem ntau yuav tsis hais txog koj (Kuv xav tias muaj 99.9 feem pua ​​txoj hauv kev nws tsis cuam tshuam nrog koj), cov cwj pwm no thiab qhov tsis sib xws qhia kuv tias ib tus neeg tsis nyob hauv ib qho hauv lawv lub neej uas lawv muaj peev xwm ua tau tus khub zoo lossis tseem npaj tau los ua kev sib raug zoo lossis cog lus.

Yog tias koj yog "txias" nrog qee yam uas yog qhov yooj yim dua thiab tsis muaj peev xwm kwv yees tau ( hav, tej zaum koj tseem tab tom ntsib qee qhov kev tsis txaus siab lossis tsis npaj txhij dhia mus rau ib yam dab tsi) , thiab muaj kev yooj yim mus txuas ntxiv yam tsis muaj kev cia siab, tom qab ntawd qee yam zoo li no tuaj yeem ua haujlwm rau koj. Tab sis yog tias cov cim no ua rau koj nyuaj siab thiab koj pheej racking koj lub hlwb thiab sim nyeem ntawm kab - taug kev deb. Nws tsis muaj teeb meem vim li cas (piv txwv li, kev ntshai, kev zam, tsis muaj kev paub, kev cog lus). Koj yuav tsum tsis txhob caum lossis yaum lwm tus los ua sijhawm rau koj.

Yog li, cia nws mus thiab paub tias tus neeg zoo yuav npaj tau thiab xav siv sijhawm nrog koj thiab ntsib koj ib nrab.

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