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"Cov zaub mov zoo yog zoo li poj niam txiv neej. Qhov ntau koj muaj ntau qhov koj xav tau." -Gael Greene

Kev sib deev thiab zaub mov tau txuas nrog ntau txoj hauv kev. Puas yog lawv kuj zoo ib yam li kev coj ncaj ncees? Puas muaj kev sib deev sab nraum koj lub tsev raws li kev coj ncaj ncees thiab lees paub thaum noj mov?

Kev sib deev thiab khoom noj

"Kuv tus hlub kub pub kuv nrog chocolate zoo tshaj plaws thiab tshuaj yej ntsuab tom qab sib deev; Kuv ib txwm xav kom kev sib deev yuav nrawm dua. " -Tus poj niam sib yuav

Thoob plaws keeb kwm, kev noj zaub mov thiab kev sib deev tau cuam tshuam nrog ntau yam cwj pwm. Hauv ob qho kev paub dhau los, txhua qhov kev nkag siab tau koom nrog thiab noj zaub mov zoo, tshwj xeeb yog cov suav nrog cawv, tsim kom muaj kev lom zem. Kuj tseem muaj hom zaub mov, xws li qhob noom xim kasfes, txiv apples, thiab oysters, uas tau txiav txim siab txhim kho kev sib deev. Lwm cov khoom noj tau pom tias yog erotic vim lawv cov duab thiab kev ntxhib los mos - piv txwv li, txiv tsawb, asparagus, thiab avocado. Lwm yam khoom noj, zoo li nplawm nplaum thiab qhob noom xim kasfes kis, qee zaum yog ib feem ntawm kev sib deev.

Kev sib deev, noj thiab coj ncaj ncees

"Kev sib deev tsis muaj teeb meem ncaj ncees ntau dua li noj zaub mov zoo." -Catherine Hakim

"Kuv hlub koj ntau dua kas fes, tab sis thov tsis txhob ua rau kuv ua pov thawj nws." -Elizabeth Evans

Catherine Hakim (2012) sib cav hais tias kev ntsib tus hlub zais cia rau kev sib ntsib zoo li yuav tsum yog ib txwm niaj hnub noj mov tom tsev noj mov tsis txhob noj tom tsev. Hakim pom zoo nrog cov uas tsis xav txog kev sib deev li kev xav, tab sis kev siv roj ntsha zoo li kev tshaib plab thiab nqhis dej. Hauv nws qhov kev xav, "Qhov tseeb uas peb tau noj ntau pluas mov hauv tsev nrog tus txij nkawm thiab cov koom tes tsis txwv kev noj zaub mov hauv tsev noj mov los ua piv txwv zaub mov txawv thiab ib puag ncig, nrog phooj ywg lossis cov npoj yaig."

Roger Scruton (1986) tsis lees paub qhov sib piv ntawm kev sib deev muaj siab thiab tsis qab los noj mov. Nws sib cav tias tsuas yog kev sib deev xav tau yog kev sib tham ntawm tus kheej uas cuam tshuam nrog lwm tus raws li tus neeg tshwj xeeb uas tuaj yeem hloov pauv tau los ntawm lwm tus, thiab tsis yog txhais tau tias mus rau qhov kawg, tab sis qhov kawg ntawm nws tus kheej txoj cai. Scruton xaus lus tias qhov sib txawv ntawm kev xav ntawm kev sib deev los ntawm kev tshaib kev nqhis tsis yog tus qauv ntawm kev xav ntawm nws tus kheej, tab sis qhov xwm txheej ntawm cov koom haum uas nws tau hais qhia.

Scruton yog lawm, thiab nws yog qhov zoo dua ntawm lwm qhov uas qhov tseem ceeb sib txawv ntawm kev noj thiab kev sib deev. Lub tsev noj mov yuav tsis ua txhaum yog tias koj noj ib zaug nkaus xwb, tab sis koj tus khub ntawm kev sib deev yuav ua rau koj npau taws yog tias koj ua rau nws txaj muag thiab siv pov tseg.

Lwm qhov sib piv ntawm kev noj thiab pw ua ke yog qhov "whetting koj lub siab nyob sab nraum, thaum tseem noj mov tom tsev." Tsis zoo li Hakim qhov kev xav, qhov kev coj ua no tsis suav nrog chav pw nrog tsev noj mov, tab sis "tsuas yog" sib xyaw lawv hauv txoj hauv kev uas tseem khaws cov zaub mov tseem ceeb (thiab khoom qab zib) sab hauv tsev thiab tsis tawm ntawm nws.

Zoo li lwm yam kev xav, kev xav deev yog feem ntau hais txog tib neeg. Kev tshaib kev nqhis thiab nqhis dej yog kev xav, qhia txog lub xeev ntawm kev tsis txaus. Lub luag haujlwm ntawm kev xav hauv kev tsim kev tshaib plab thiab nqhis dej yog qhov tseem ceeb me dua li kev sib deev. Koj tuaj yeem xav txog kev noj mov zoo, tab sis kev xav li no tsis muaj kev hloov pauv rau kev noj mov tiag. Nws tau hais tias Ancient Greek Diogenes the Cynic tau pom masturbating hauv pej xeem cov xwm txheej. Thaum thuam rau nws tus cwj pwm, nws tau piav qhia: "Kuv xav tias kuv tuaj yeem rub kuv lub plab kom txaus nws qhov kev tshaib kev nqhis."

Zoo li noj mov, kev sib deev kuj tuaj yeem ua tiav hauv ntau qhov chaw thiab nrog tib neeg sib txawv. Txawm li cas los xij, qhov hloov pauv tau ntawm kev sib deev (thiab kev hlub sib hlub) tsis tau txhais hais tias kev ywj pheej yuav tsum tau siv rau nws thiab nws zoo li cov ntaub pua chaw - hloov pauv ntau dua, qab zib dua. Ntawm qhov tsis sib xws, cov neeg uas hloov pauv lawv txoj kev hlub thiab kev sib deev sai sai tuaj yeem muaj teeb meem tsim kev sib raug zoo nrog kev hlub. Kev noj zaub mov txawv; tas li noj mov ntawm cov khw noj mov sib txawv tsis muaj teeb meem kev ncaj ncees txuas nrog nws. Vim li no, peb tsis tuaj yeem tsis nyiam txog kev sib deev zoo li peb tab tom noj mov, txawm hais tias muaj qee kis uas kev sib deev xav tau tsis muaj dab tsi ua nrog kev hlub romantic. Coob leej neeg xav tias kev hlub thiab kev sib deev tuaj yeem sib cais tab sis xav kom lawv ua ke. Ntxiv mus, tib neeg feem ntau yuav txiav txim siab koom nrog kev sib deev ntawm lawv tus khub thiab kev sib tw ua kev hem thawj rau lawv txoj kev sib raug zoo.

Kev sib deev tsis zoo thiab kev noj qab haus huv kev sib raug zoo

"Kev sib deev tsis zoo li zaub mov tsis zoo - tsis phem txaus kom zam, tab sis tsis yog qhov zoo txaus kom ua zaub mov ruaj khov." -Cov Lus Txhais Hauv Nroog

"Kuv tau noj cov qhaub cij uas tsis muaj mayonnaise, zaub xas lav, txiv lws suav, lossis cheese nrog kuv tus txij nkawm. Tam sim no kuv tuaj yeem noj tag nrho cov qhaub cij. Kuv tus hlub yog cov txuj lom thiab veggies. . . kuv tus txij nkawm cov nqaij lossis lub hauv paus ruaj khov Kuv tau muaj ntau dua 25 xyoos! Nrog ob qho tib si hauv kuv lub neej, kuv tau ua siab tawv tab sis tsis puv nkaus! " -Tus poj niam sib yuav

Kev siv lo lus "khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoob khoobလွန်လွန်လွန်လွန် ncua -ໜ Sijhawm" လ က tawm) thiaj li tsis zoo. Txawm li cas los xij, lawv puas noj qab nyob zoo tib yam? Lo lus "junk" hais txog qee yam tsis zoo. Dab tsi yog qhov tsis zoo hauv kev sib deev tsis zoo? Peb puas yuav tsum zam kev sib deev tsis zoo, ib yam li peb tau qhia kom zam zaub mov tsis zoo?

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