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Kevin nyob hauv nws chav "chilling" thaum nws hnov nws txiv ntaus lub qhov rooj thiab pib qw ntawm nws niam. Kevin tig nws lub suab nkauj kom poob qhov kev foom tsis zoo, qw nrov nrov, thiab qw uas ua rau ua rau lub kua muag poob. Hmo dhau ib hmo thiab ib hnub dhau ib hnub qhov no yog qhov niaj hnub ua ntawm Kevin lub tsev. Yog tias nws muaj hmoo, nws yuav dim ntawm nws txiv txoj kev npau taws. Tam sim no tias Kevin yog 16, nws ua siab ntev rau nws txiv tus cwj pwm tau ua haujlwm nyias. Thaum 6'1 nws paub tias nws yooj yim muab nws tso rau hauv nws qhov chaw. Nws txiv tau thab nws nws lub neej tag nrho thiab raws li nws txiv, Kevin yog "zoo rau tsis muaj ib yam dab tsi ntawm crap". Kevin lub neej kev sib raug zoo: Kevin tau xav tau lub hwj chim, hwm thiab tswj hwm (txhua yam uas nws tsis muaj hauv tsev). Tsis muaj leej twg yuav khiav hla nws dua. Hauv tsev kawm ntawv thiab hauv zej zog, Kevin tau ua lub koob npe nrov rau nws tus kheej. Tsis muaj leej twg xav cuam tshuam nrog Kevin lossis ua rau nws sab tsis zoo. Nws tsis muaj kev hwm rau cov ntxhais. Nws tau hais lus tsis zoo thiab hais lus sib deev rau poj niam, ua rau lawv tsis xis nyob hauv nws xub ntiag. Rau cov hais mav, nws tau hem, thuam thiab hem lawv kom txog thaum lawv xav tsis thoob thaum pom nws. Kevin tau thab plaub cov menyuam tag nrho nws lub neej. Nws tsis muaj phooj ywg tseeb. Tsis muaj leej twg tuaj yeem sawv nws thiab tsis zoo dua, nws tsis tuaj yeem sawv nws tus kheej. Muaj pes tsawg tus thab plaub tawm zoo li Kevin? Raws li txoj kev tshawb fawb tshiab, los ntawm Lub Chaw Tiv Thaiv Kab Mob thiab Tiv Thaiv Kab Mob thiab Massachusetts Lub Tsev Haujlwm Saib Xyuas Kev Noj Qab Haus Huv, cov lus teb yuav ntau dua li qhov koj xav. Txoj kev tshawb no qhia tias cov tub ntxhais kawm uas yog ob tus neeg raug tsim txom thiab ua txhaum feem ntau muaj kev ua phem hauv tsev. Kev thab plaub yog kwv yees plaub npaug feem ntau yuav raug mob los ntawm ib tus neeg hauv lawv tsev neeg ntau dua li cov tub ntxhais kawm uas tsis thab plaub lossis tsis raug kev thab plaub. Kev thab plaub yog teeb meem loj thiab tau cuam tshuam nrog ntau yam teeb meem kev puas siab puas ntsws, qee qhov nthuav dav mus rau neeg laus. Kev tshawb fawb thab plaub tau cuam tshuam nrog: Sib sau ua ke, peb tuaj yeem ua dab tsi los nres lub voj voog phem no ua ntej nws ua rau muaj kev puas tsuaj ntau dua? 1. Cov niam txiv, Koom nrog! Cov niam txiv, koj ua lub luag haujlwm tseem ceeb hauv qhov seb koj tus menyuam dhau los ua neeg thab plaub. Ib daim ntawv tshuaj ntsuam xyuas nrog cov hluas hnub nyoog 10-17 xyoo qhia tias cov menyuam muaj feem ntau yuav thab lwm tus yog tias lawv xav tias lawv niam thiab txiv npau taws rau lawv lossis yog lawv xav tias lawv ua rau lawv niam lawv txiv tsis zoo. Cov niam txiv uas muaj kev sib raug zoo thiab tham nrog lawv cov menyuam tsa cov menyuam uas tsis tshua muaj siab phem rau lwm tus. Vim li cas? Cov hluas xav tau kev qhia thiab txhawb nqa cov neeg laus, ntxiv rau koj cov teeb meem rau koj tus hluas. Kev tshawb fawb tseem txuas ntxiv los txhawb qhov kev xav tias txawm hais tias niam txiv yuav xav tias lawv tus hluas tsis saib thiab mloog, lawv ua. Yog li, siv sijhawm hauv koj lub sijhawm los siv nrog koj tus hluas. Tsis tas li, saib xyuas koj tus hluas ua dab tsi hauv online. Kev thab plaub tuaj yeem ua phem yog tias lawv raug thaiv los ntawm lub vijtsam. Cov niam txiv, koj ua lub luag haujlwm tseem ceeb hauv kev tawm tsam kom tsis txhob thab plaub. Nco tseg: Yog tias koj yog niam txiv thiab tawm tsam nrog koj txoj kev sib raug zoo nrog koj tus hluas, thov nrhiav kev pab. Cov tub ntxhais hluas xyoo yog luv, xyoo tseem ceeb. Yog tias kev sib raug zoo raug rhuav tshem nyob rau lub sijhawm txhim kho no, nws tuaj yeem muaj kev cuam tshuam tsis zoo rau koj kev sib raug zoo yav tom ntej nrog koj tus menyuam. 2. Cov Kws Qhia Ntawv, Koom Nrog! Nws yog lub sijhawm uas cov tsev kawm ntawv siv lub zog tiv thaiv kom txhob thab plaub. Txawm hais tias muaj ntau qhov tsis zoo hauv kev sib tham thiab kev xa xov tshwm sim tom qab teev sijhawm kawm ntawv, nws qhov tom qab feem ntau nkag mus rau hauv tsev kawm ntawv. Coob leej menyuam yaus raug mob thaum lawv nkag mus kawm tom ntej thiab tsis paub tias muaj dab tsi kis rau lawv. Cov kws qhia ntawv yuav tsum lees paub tias yog kev thab plaub cuam tshuam rau ib puag ncig kev kawm hauv txhua txoj kev, tom qab ntawd nws yog teeb meem hauv tsev kawm ntawv. Kuv tshwj xeeb zoo li cas hauv xeev New Hampshire txhawb nws txoj cai tiv thaiv kev thab plaub tso cai rau cov tsev kawm hauv nroog mus rau hauv "yog tias kev coj ua cuam tshuam nrog tus tub ntxhais kawm txoj hauv kev kawm lossis cuam tshuam ntau qhov kev ua haujlwm ntawm lub tsev kawm lossis kev txhawb nqa kev ua haujlwm lossis xwm txheej." Cov tsev kawm ntawv nyob hauv kev lag luam ntawm kev qhia paub. Thaum kawm txuj ci tseem ceeb, yog li kev paub hauv zej zog thiab kev xav. Nws yog peb lub luag haujlwm, yog tus kws qhia ntawv, qhia peb cov hluas kom muaj kev sib txuas lus tau zoo thiab npaj lawv rau lub neej vam meej dhau ntawm phab ntsa tsev kawm ntawv. Nov yog qee qhov lus qhia: 3. Cov hluas, Koom Nrog! Cov hluas, koj muaj lub suab nrov tshaj plaws hauv koj cov phooj ywg. Ua tus pab tawm suab kom tsis txhob thab plaub. Nov yog qee qhov lus qhia: Xaus: Nws tau hais tias "Nws yuav siv lub zos los tsa menyuam." Cov lus no muaj tseeb, peb txhua tus muaj lub luag haujlwm los txwv tus cwj pwm no txawm hais tias koj yog poj niam ua lag luam, tsim cai lij choj, qhia ntawv, niam txiv, koom nrog txiv plig, tub hluas, tub ntxhais kawm qib siab, kws kho mob, kws kho qhov muag, koj lub npe nws ... peb txhua tus ua lub luag haujlwm kom tsis txhob thab plaub. Kev thab plaub tseem ceeb Nyeem
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